That's a world of knowledge there HP, much appreciated.
The reason I didn't say stepdad is because I, and others of my age group were always very definite about what constituted a stepdad. The man my mother is married to hooked up with her after I was out of the house, and my own father is alive, and someone I have a relationship with. We always considered a stepdad someone who you at least partially grew up with, and was usually around because your own father was dead or flew the coop. However, if your own father was around and still relating to you, the guy in your house was still your stepdad.
I left home before he moved in, and she had barely started seeing him, and didn't marry him until much later. I left for a situation with an uncle, aunt and cousins with my father living down the block, so this guy is 'my mother's husband'.
That's almost as long as your tips about the single malt, LOLOL!!! Sorry.
Anyway, that's great stuff and I'll remember that. I don't drink the stuff, but I like to know a little about which I'm speaking so that I can buy gifts that will be liked and appreciated.