Dave, Times like this remind me of a phrase I lean on often. "Don't look at how big your problems are, Look at how Awesome your God is". The truth be told, we have no control. God is in charge and HIS plan is our life. My hardest obstical is letting go of MY will. Letting HIS will rule my life. This is my Prayer for you and your family,
Father God, You sent your only Son to this world to save us. You showed us your Love for us. You showed us your WILL for us. Help us to accept your Word. I ask that you shower your Grace on Dave and his family. I hold them up to you. I ask that you abide in their hearts and comfort them during this very hard time and forever more. Through you all thing are possible. If it is your Will, bless these people with health, prosperity and forgiveness. Hold their child close to your side, let it live in you! I ask for these blessings in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.