"I'm with Capt on that one. But more importantly EVERYONE loves a Fireman. Not the same for PO's." - Muerte
Muerte's quoted observation is unfortunately all too true, and one I have to deal with hearing from friends, co-workers, and catch from other peoples public conversations on a regular basis. I love my cop friends, and I have an automatic respect for all police officers. I was stopped walking home at 4 a.m. on July 8th, two miles out of New Hamburg station, and with five miles to go, carrying a total of about 35 pounds. I was glad to see them. Not for any special reason, just because they were cops and they were there.
As I always do, I returned the lead cops' query from his car with a hearty greeting of my own, my complete cooperation and respect. I pulled out my ID before I was asked, and as the lead officer engaged me in conversation, one from another car took my ID back to his car for some kind of check, I guess. The officer who had called out to me seemed to be sort of incredulous that I was on the walk I was on. He engaged me in a conversation wherein I could tell he was trying to get me to slip in relating my story.
Since I wasn't really doing anything wrong, and had no reason to be confused about my story, I was consistent, and noticed that after calling me by my correct name, having observed my ID before giving it to his buddy, he deliberately called me by the wrong name, talking fast, trying to trip me up. I pulled out two more ID's, without his asking, politely correcting him on my name, and continued to explain myself, telling him about the closing of the local taxi company, my trepidations about the new company that was taking over, and that full service had not yet been established for my area, hence there had been no one available to come get me after leaving the train.
When his partner returned, he affirmed having heard that the local company had sold out to the big company in Poughkeepsie. I also related to them the very dangerous ride that a driver from the big company had given me on the way to the train station earlier in the afternoon, on July 7th, and that I was apprehensive of the drivers this new company was going to bring in to our area. I explained that the groceries in my bags were because they had closed the local A&P, one mile down from my house. I wasn't slurring, rambling, getting off topic, and although I was completely respectful, I was not robotic with the sir, yes sir stuff, usually a sure sign to a cop that something could well be wrong. Respect is one thing, lathering on the butter too thickly is another. They knew about the taxi company being sold, as well as the recent A&P closing.
Overall, it was a pleasant encounter lasting about four minutes or so. They noted the inhalers in my briefcase, which probably added to the lead cop's incredulity about my walk, which he questioned three or four times. "You're coming from WHERE again, and going WHERE?" I guess for a soon to be 50 year old man, asthmatic, carrying a heavy load, walking seven miles and making over 1,000 feet of altitude in the process, it must have seemed rather strange. They also explained that they knew there were "walkers" in the general area, but never for that distance, and with them knowing all the rest, I was an unfamiliar walker to them.
The lead cop actually went out of his way to explain to me three or four times that they knew about walkers, but that not only was I not one of the regulars, but since my walk was rather extreme, they just had to make sure. I humorously explained that I was old, and thankful for the workout, and that I had no problem whatsoever with the stop. Cops don't need to explain anything to me unless they're putting handcuffs on me, or hitting me with something, both of which have never happened.
Throughout the entire encounter, although well within my rights, I never committed any of the cardinal sins that many people, including unfortunately, many friends of mine do when stopped for a routine check. I did not have an attitude, because I have no problem with cops, whether they're stopping me for a check, or living next door. I didn't query them as to the nature of the stop, because it's none of my freakin' business why they're stopping me, unless and until they put handcuffs on me.
It's THEIR business what I'm doing out at 4 a.m. with a bulging black tote bag, and an aluminum briefcase, in the middle of completely nowhere, in semi-rural suburbia. I also was completely cooperative and unresentful, volunteering to open my bags, pulling stuff out without being asked, handing them ID without being asked, and even asking them if they were sure they wouldn't like to check the bags more thoroughly or perform any other checks, while they were at it. I was relaxed, friendly, conversational, respectful without being suspiciously robotic, and the encounter ended with smiles and friendly salutations all around.
No problems here, and I continued storming up the hilly roads home, setting a personal record for the walk, if you minus out the time for the stop, and despite never having carried quite that much weight home before. No problem, no harm done, friendly cops, well behaved, cooperative citizen, three to five minutes out of their day and mine, everybody's happy, now they know my name, face and that I'm nuts enough so that they might find me doing this again some day.
Unfortunately, all too many of my friends will sneer, flaring their nostrils and curling their lips, even at the mention of the word "cop." Although I have worked long and hard to try and influence a different reaction, there doesn't seem to be anything I can do, even when I mention that we have a mutual cop friend, or that someone I introduced them to twenty years ago is still on the job, retired on disability, or the ex-training partner I lost in The Towers.
Cops have bills to pay just like everyone else, and don't get paid very well for what they do, especially for putting on the target every day. I don't call it the uniform, I call it putting on the target, because it invokes an automatically negative reaction in so many people in society, including many decent, right thinking people that I number among my closest friends.
It's a shame, an unfortunate fact of life, that cops can't just try to live their lives in peace, the way the rest of us do, sit down with the checkbook or watch TV with the kids, without having to think that tomorrow, they will put on the clothes once again that make them a target of so many citizens' sociopolitical frustration and bitterness, not to mention the wrath unleashed upon them by the true bad guys in society every day.
So, since Pick started this thread entitled "Police Officers," I'm voting for raising my glass to them, for having the balls that I don't have, for working at a job that I certainly don't have the mentality for, and for being there to protect and to serve, knowing that out of 300 million people in this country, very few, including the vast millions of innocents, are truly happy to see them in passing. I always am. Thank you all, those of you "on the job."
Be well, keep the belly flat and the feet quick, keep your head down and may The Lord's blessings be with you all.