Yes Vince, I lost the house. Too little, too late. Something may have been able to be worked out, but the mortgage company would not grant any more delays, or accept any partials. Things are also not good with my father. He is going to give me the money to get re-started back in NYC, and I am also getting some money off the foreclosure sale. I guess the bidding went high enough so that all the hands in the till got their fee, and there's still something left over. Hopefully enough for a can of sardines.
I also have to take over my father's life completely, which is a heck of a lot easier to do from Queens, where life will be WAY less expensive than up here. I needed an income of a minimum of $70,000 or the take-home equivalent when I moved up here, and I only earned that much in the first of the seven years I've been here. Those seven years, especially the last six, have been the worst years of my life. I've taken a never ending pounding of budget cuts, outsourcing, 911-effects and after-effects to the job market, asthma difficulties, four serious injuries from accidents, family difficulties, and it hasn't stopped. My income throughout that time has averaged only $45-50,000.
I don't really get that kind of paycheck, because I've had as many as two or three jobs during that time, as usual, each part time, some freelance with mostly cash business, but the annual equivalent of such a salary. However, I knew when I moved up here that making the equivalent of $70k would soon have to become $80-90k. Every time I've gotten off the deck, I've been knocked back down, and I went down swinging, but the house is off.
I am needed in Puerto Rico as soon as possible to take over my father's life completely. Those of you who know NYC, especially the additions to the transportation system, know that Puerto Rico from Queens is basically like the last stop on a very long subway ride. :mrgreen:
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Sooooooooooooo, let's review, life will be cheaper, life will be way simpler, Puerto Rico at least once a month for three, four days, and hopefully getting The Family Circus finally straightened out, after the mess my well-intentioned grandmother left nearly 21 years ago when she died. I'm not going to let my father leave me a mess if I can help it, and after three recent injuries, two falls and a cinder block falling on his foot because of his playful dog, rescued from uncaring hands, he needs me to watch over his health and everything else in his life.
The plan is to end the soap opera regarding the land, get his piece accurately measured (the house, a few smaller buildings, presumably 16 acres, should be, not too far off the mark at worst), get it sold for the right price in the midst of the Guatemalan conditions in his area of Puerto Rico, and get him the heck out of there. In the meantime, I'll have gotten funds for a six month head start in a new apartment in Queens. I'll upgrade my system, XP, new Microsoft Office Suite, some study materials and buckle down at long last for some serious study. Take two or three months off to get settled, get down to Puerto Rico two or three times and get that party started.
Shuttling back and forth at least once a month to Puerto Rico, studying for a changed work place, skills which will open a multitude of new doors in the job market, and taking care of my Dad. If and when we get him up here, with the farm sold, THEN we keep the apartment as our hotel in the city, and move WAY the heck out in the middle of nowhere. I'm looking at a radius surrounding areas in upstate New York, New Hampshire, and Maine. Later on, hopefully a small getaway area in Canada. The areas in the states are all 300 miles+ from NYC. The idea is to be over 300, but not more than 400 miles from NYC in the States.
FIRST, get out of here as quickly as possible, make a smooth, quick transition back to Queens, get set up quick and get down to Puerto Rico. It's pretty much a flashing yellow, just about red alert down there for me. And THAT Vince, is the story behind the boll weevil heading back to Queens. :mrgreen: :cryinlaugh: